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Domestic Violence Against Men In Colorado
Domestic Violence and Marriage

With the recent publication of crime statistics for 2003 by the Colorado Bureau of Investigation I have been able to update the <http://web.archive.org/web/20060222103958/http://www.dvmen.org/dv-90.htm%3edemographics> demographics of domestic violence in the state legal system. We now have archival court data for the years 1998 through 2003 and some clear trends are evident.  With regard to domestic violence, Colorado is a bellwether state, having introduced some of the earliest laws requiring mandatory arrest, "no drop" prosecution, combined with "primary aggressor" (arrest the male) statutes. Further, in Colorado restraining orders are permanent, as in the rest of one's life, whereas in most other states such orders have a finite duration of one or two years.

The earliest statewide demographic data regarding restraining orders presently available is for the year 1998.

Table 36 shows the number of those orders issued in Colorado by judicial district and county versus the population in each district except Denver (2 nd Judicial District), with a total for the rest of the state of 21,475 such orders in 1998.


 Table 36: Number of temporary and permanent restraining orders issued in the State of Colorado during fiscal 1998 by judicial district and county.

Judicial district

Colorado Counties

1998 Census

Estimate

Restraining

orders

Percent of

restraining

orders

Percent of

population

Orders per

10,000 citizens

First

Gilpin and Jefferson

504,986

total

2,231

total

10.4%

14.6%

44

Second

Denver (not included in totals)

498,402

145

N/A

N/A

N/A

Third

Huerfano and Las Animas

21,514

total

176

total

0.8%

0.6%

82

Fourth

El Paso and Teller

511,272

total

7,152

total

33.3%

14.7%

140

Fifth

Clear Creek, Eagle, Lake, Summit

67,858

total

180

total

0.8%

2.0%

27

Sixth

Archuleta, La Plata, and San Juan

50,199

total

281

total

1.3%

1.5%

56

Seventh

Delta, Gunnison, Hinsdale, Montrose, Ouray, and San Miguel

79,350

total

857

total

4.0%

2.3%

108

Eighth

Jackson and Larimer

232,625

total

988

total

4.6%

6.7%

42

Ninth

Garfield, Pitkin, and Rio Blanco

58,985

total

402

total

1.9%

1.7%

68

Tenth

Pueblo

134,919

761

3.5%

3.9%

56

Eleventh

Chaffee, Custer, Fremont, and Park

76,240

total

387

total

1.8%

2.2%

51

Twelfth

Alamosa, Conejos, Costilla,

Mineral, Rio Grande, and Saguache

44,394

total

354

total

1.7%

1.3%

80

Thirteenth

Kit Carson, Logan, Morgan, Phillips,

Sedgwick, Washington, and Yuma

71,137

total

433

total

2.0%

2.1%

61

Fourteenth

Grand, Moffat, and Routt

40,153

total

177

total

0.8%

1.2%

44

Fifteenth

Baca, Cheyenne, Kiowa, Prowers

22,000

total

185

total

0.9%

0.6%

84

Sixteenth

Bent, Crowley, and Otero

30,766

total

284

total

1.3%

0.9%

93

Seventeenth

Adams

323,427

1,722

8.0%

9.3%

53

Eighteenth

Arapahoe, Douglas, Elbert, Lincoln

(Aurora Municipal Court N/A)

638,326

total

1,572

total is suspect

7.3%?

18.4%

Suspect

Nineteenth

Weld

159,501

1,550

7.2%

4.6%

97

Twentieth

Boulder

266,671

656

3.1%

7.7%

25

Twenty first

Mesa

112,899

850

4.0%

3.3%

75

Twenty second

Dolores and Montezuma

24,456

total

132

total

0.6%

0.7%

54

Totals (minus Denver)

3,470,565

21,475

Statewide average: 62

Mean of judicial districts: 67

Standard deviation 28

(except Denver and Aurora)

Population: U.S. Census Bureau

Restraining orders: Colorado State Court

Administrator's Office and Denver Post.

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Given an estimated population of 3,470,565 for Colorado (does not include Denver) in 1998, each judicial district (minus Denver) should have issued 62 ±28 (one standard deviation) restraining orders per 10,000 residents if reasonably uniform standards are being applied. Note that such a large standard deviation, in and of itself, suggests that equal protection is not being afforded all citizens of Colorado.

According to the Colorado Legislative Council Staff, 12,166 people were charged with DV in FY1998. 79% of those charged were male, or roughly 9,600 men. Of the people charged with domestic violence in Colorado in FY1998, 4,331 were actually convicted and that appears to be largely because they pled guilty or no contest. We suspect the gender bias for convictions is even stronger than for arrests but do not have sufficient data to make an estimate.

As shown in subsequent sections, these initial results have persisted in following years.


One frightening trend is the extraordinary increase in the issuance of restraining orders as shown: (<Table">http://www.dvmen.org/dv-99.htm#pgfId-1105719>Table> Table 49)

Sections

The Effects Of A Civil Protection Order by Charles E. Corry, Ph.D.

Protection Orders Do Not Protect by Charles E. Corry, Ph.D.

Abuse Of Protection Orders by Charles E. Corry, Ph.D.

Summary Of Protection Order Abuse by Charles E. Corry, Ph.D.

     Also, in 2003 court cases for criminal domestic violence increased 5% to 16,159, yet domestic violence incidents reported to police decreased 2% to 7,108 from the previous year. No public official I have spoken with has been able to explain why or how there are more than twice as many DV criminal cases in court than DV incidents reported to the police, nor how the police incidents can be going down while the number of DV court cases is rapidly increasing.

One surprising trend became clear in 2003. Divorce filings in Colorado courts have consistently decreased from 63 per 10,000 citizens in 1999 to 56 per 10,000 in 2003 (<Table">http://web.archive.org/web/20060222103958/http://www.dvmen.org/dv-100.htm#pgfId-1109000>Table> Table 53).

It might reasonably be expected that with restraining order filings and domestic violence cases increasing at an extraordinary rate that divorces should also be increasing. To find that isn't happening was puzzling.

An obvious way to avoid a divorce is not to marry in the first place.

For most of the fifty-plus years between 1950 and 2002, the  marriage rate in Colorado averaged around 100 per 10,000
citizens per year but has been steadily declining since 1994. One might reasonably suspect that increases in restraining orders and DV charges have a depressing affect on men's willingness to marry. These relations are clear in the plot:

The divorce rate then appears to be declining because there are fewer couples getting married. And in 2003 the marriage and restraining order rates appear to intersect although additional data, as always, are desirable.

Clearly, the implication is that as charges of domestic violence and abuse increase, the number of marriages declines. That finding agrees with common sense. Marriages are built on trust and a restraining order or DV allegation destroys any trust in one's partner.

There are, of course, many other factors contributing to the decline of marriage in today's society, e.g., the easy availability
of sex without getting married. Women also blame men, as usual, for having a fear of commitment. But it is a rare man today who has not been caught up in the nightmare of a divorce, allegations of domestic violence, a restraining order, or faced charges of sexual harassment; or at least has a close friend, co-worker, parent, sibling, or other relative who has been through the horror of our present "legal" system.

With the rate of restraining orders exceeding the marriage rate, does anyone think our society can long survive under these laws and practices?

 If unsupported allegations of domestic violence and abuse can be freely made in divorce and custody disputes with the law strongly favoring the female, then a man has to be functionally insane to marry and a drooling idiot to sire a child. By not marrying, and using modern birth control methods, our best and brightest largely avoid the nightmares our family laws and
courts have become. As a result, family laws in Colorado have become a breeding experiment in stupidity.


Charles E. Corry, Ph.D., F.G.S.A.
President, Equal Justice Foundation http://www.ejfi.org/
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Colorado Springs, Colorado 80906-5820
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Abstract

Chapter 1 — Charged With Domestic Violence?

Chapter 2 — Protection Orders

Chapter 3 — Domestic Violence

Chapter 4 — Domestic Violence Statistics

Chapter 5 — Domestic Violence And The Patriarchy

Chapter 6 — Domestic Violence And Politics

Chapter 7 — Stalking

Chapter 8 — Domestic Violence And The Law

Chapter 9 — Colorado Judges — Citizen's Review

Chapter 10 — Demographics Of Domestic Violence In Colorado

Chapter 11 — The Male Perspective

Chapter 12 — The Female of the Species

Chapter 13 — Violent Women

Chapter 14 — Stories Of Abused Men In Colorado

Chapter 15 — Women Who Have Killed Their Partners In Colorado

Chapter 16 — Colorado Laws

Chapter 17 — Social Goals

Chapter 18 — Related Web Sites