| Denying fathers their rights - Thursday, June 16, 2011Barbara Kay, National Post · Jun. 15, 2011
Shania Twain recently published a memoir detailing her anguish at her ex-husband's affair with her best friend. In the end, Shania found happiness with the friend's betrayed husband, by her account a straight-arrow guy, a terrific father to his own daughter and a much-admired step-father to her sons.
She writes, "What attracted me to Fred was his selflessness. He was going through the same agony as I was -maybe even worse, because as a father, he would have to battle his soon-to-be ex for the right to see his own daughter. At least that was something I never had to face."
Why is it that Shania accepts with such fatalism that the custody of her daughter will never be at issue, whereas this selfless man will have to "battle" for access to his child? Because that is the way things still are in family courts in the West, and even celebrities with the clout to arouse public outrage have absorbed the received wisdom that if one parent resists shared parenting for any reason whatsoever -it is usually the mother, and the reasons can be trivial or non-existent -the mother is awarded sole custody. (In reality, nobody is awarded anything through such judgments; on the contrary, one parent and his children have been taken away from each other).
In 1995, 49,000 American men were primary caregivers to their children. In 2010 154,000 men were. Pampers is now using fathers in their diaper ads. Almost 10 years ago, in a sample of 32,000 parents, Health Canada found that working fathers and mothers spend virtually equal time on child care.
So gender convergence is the rule for non-divorced parents, and equal parenting is now the rule for divorces that don't go to trial. Why is it not the presumptive norm for those that do go to trial, after which mothers get sole custody nine out of 10 times?
It is clear to any disinterested observer who immerses himself in the subject that almost the only opponents to equal parenting are misandric ideologues and those financially invested in the family court system itself, which would see a drastic reduction in revenue from the professional gold mine all-or-nothing custody battles represent.
Reliable surveys tell us that over 70% of Canadians want a presumption of shared or equal parenting in law (in the absence of abuse). But many judges are still in thrall to stubborn myths: that men demand custody rights to punish their ex-wives or to avoid child support; that they easily disengage from their children; or that awarding men equal rights represents a "patriarchal backlash" (even though few men ask for sole custody, only shared) and children do just as well with one parent as two. Wrong on all counts.
Edward Kruk, associate professor of social work at the University of British Columbia, has been studying the changing role of fathers and the problems of father absence for 30 years. His latest book, Divorced Fathers: Children's Needs and Parental Responsibilities, illuminates the tragic toll on fathers first removed from their children's lives by a biased legal system, and then unsupported by a social services network that is almost wholly indifferent to fathers' rights and feelings.
Displaced fathers are overwrought at the loss of contact with their children. They are far more likely to become depressed or unemployed. Worse, suicide rates amongst fathers struggling to maintain a parenting relationship with their children are "epidemic." Divorced fathers are more than twice as likely to kill themselves as married fathers. But since men tend to suffer in silence, the depth of their despair goes unnoticed.
Kruk calls the crisis of father absence -for both fathers and the children they are torn from -"one of the most significant and powerful trends of this generation." Children now form primary attachments to both parents. Losing their father's active participation in their lives is enormously consequential. Trustworthy research demonstrates that children deprived of a meaningful father role are at far greater risk of physical, emotional and psychological damage than those actively parented by their fathers. Children fare better with equal parenting even where there is conflict between the parents; it is only child-directed conflict that hurts children.
Kruk's findings reveal that ironically, precisely because they have taken on equal responsibility for parenting before divorce, men who lose their parenting role now suffer far more grievously than they used to 20 years ago when he wrote his first book, Divorce and Disengagement. He argues for a paradigm shift, away from a rights-based discourse to a framework of "responsibility to needs," in which both children's needs and parental and institutional responsibilities to them would be enumerated.
Kruk rather poignantly asks: "Why are parents with no civil or criminal wrongdoing forced to surrender their responsibility to raise their children?" and "Is the removal of a parent from the life of a child, via legal sole custody, itself a form of parental alienation?" Good questions, especially since equal parenting has been part of the Conservative policy book since the party's rebirth. What's the delay? Over to you, Mr. Harper.
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| Parents: Public Schools Own Your Children - Wednesday, February 23, 2011Lew Rockwell | Take advantage of one of our remaining freedoms and secede from the public schools. Lew Rockwell LRC
February 22, 2011 In Fairfax VA, a 15-year-old boy was accused of having bought a legal mock-marijuana substance, though it was not found on his person. He was then forced into signing a confession, before his parents were even phoned, suspended and banned for seven weeks, and told he would be forced to attend a public school for “criminal” kids. His parents, on the advice of a PS commissar, did not take a lawyer to his disciplinary hearing. The boy took his own life a month later. If parents are going to sentence their children to the yellow buses, they should at least teach them never to talk to any school official without being able to call their parents first, and parents should bring a lawyer to any hearing. Far better, of course, to take advantage of one of our remaining freedoms and secede from the public schools for private school or homeschooling. In Arvada, CA, upon the instructions of public school officials, the police arrested and handcuffed an 11-year-old boy with a disability for “inappropriate drawing.” Good thing he wasn’t singing that ancient student anthem, The Burning of the School: Mine eyes have seen the glory of the burning of the school
We have tortured all the teachers – we have broken all the rules
We cheated [principal's name] in a dirty game of pool
And our troops go marching on!
Glory, glory, hallelujah
My teacher hit me with a ruler
I hid behind her door with a loaded .44
And the teacher don’t teach no more!
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| Terrorist judges who misuse laws on parents when it comes to their children, not the states - Wednesday, February 23, 2011Court rules against Pittsburgh parents in drug vaccine case Daniel Malloy | U.S. Supreme Court today ruled against a Mt. Lebanon family in a case dealing with child vaccines.
Daniel Malloy Pittsburgh Post-Gazette
February 22, 2011 The U.S. Supreme Court today ruled against a Mt. Lebanon family in a case dealing with child vaccines, upholding limits to lawsuits against drugmakers. In a 6-2 decision, the court ruled that the National Childhood Vaccine Injury Act prohibited the family of Hannah Bruesewitz from taking their claim against drugmaker Wyeth to state court. When she was an infant, Hannah sustained violent seizures that have rendered her mute and in need of constant care, a condition the family contends was caused by a diphtheria, tetanus and pertussis vaccine produced by Wyeth that the company later discontinued. But the Vaccine Act established specialized no-fault vaccine courts to hear such claims. The Bruesewitz case against the Tri-Immunol vaccine was rejected in 1995, with the vaccine court ruling the family could not prove the vaccine had caused the seizures. read more ... |
| Criminal neglect not enough to keep mom behind bars - Tuesday, February 15, 2011Comment: Would anything have been handled differently by Crown Counsel and the court, if it were the father or step-father that did this…?CHRISTIE BLATCHFORD From Tuesday's Globe and Mail Published Monday, Feb. 14, 2011 8:44PM EST Last updated Monday, Feb. 14, 2011 9:21PM EST
It is a curious country, this one, that you can be convicted of killing your child and still you get to walk out of the courtroom, free as a bird, la-dee-dah. That’s what happened on Monday at Ontario Superior Court in Toronto. Melissa Alexander was convicted of manslaughter in the scalding death of her 19-month-old son, Miguel, who died of massive third-degree immersion burns that his mommy dearest slathered with Vaseline and cotton batting, at some point tossing some of the little boy’s sloughed-off skin into the garbage can, before she left him and his nearly three-year-old brother, Shawn, in their apartment to go shopping. That little excursion was part of Ms. Alexander’s failure to get the baby any medical attention for what was clearly a catastrophic injury. She phoned 911 only early the next day, by which time he was dead. Although all the evidence is that the young woman was alone with the children that whole day and probably dunked the boy into a scalding hot tub, an earlier charge of second-degree murder was dismissed by another judge after a preliminary hearing. Ms. Alexander was committed to trial only for manslaughter, the allegation centring not on what she probably did, but on what she didn’t, that in other words she caused Miguel’s death by failing to provide what in law is called “the necessaries of life,” which includes proper medical care. God forbid her bail should be revoked while she awaits sentencing just because of that. Heavens no. Only the terrific, hard-nosed judge, Anne Molloy, even raised the possibility. She asked about the terms of the bail imposed when Ms. Alexander was first charged in the fall of 2007. Crown prosecutor Barry Stagg mistakenly replied that it was “a house arrest bail,” only to be corrected by Ms. Alexander’s lawyer, Catherine Currie, who told the judge it was in fact a surety bail put up by Ms. Alexander’s grandmother. Mr. Stagg, roused to action by the judge’s question, then suggested that if Ms. Alexander wasn’t “asked to step into custody,” then perhaps Judge Molloy ought to impose a more restrictive bail. “Into custody? Why?” Judge Molloy asked, hopeful it appeared that the prosecutor might have an answer and at least make the case, which is just what many prosecutors would have done. Mr. Stagg muttered weakly about “the severity of the offence,” but in the same breath admitted Ms. Alexander has “been on a bail a long time and there’s been no difficulty.” The judge asked about Miguel’s surviving brother, and if Ms. Alexander had access to him; she doesn’t. Left with a prosecutor who seemed indifferent, a defence lawyer who was strongly arguing against jail and with no small person to protect, Judge Molloy had little room to manoeuvre. She then asked about tightening up the bail, and Mr. Stagg suggested Ms. Alexander report in once a week to the authorities. Ms. Currie immediately objected. Judge Molloy asked what Ms. Alexander was doing now, “on a daily basis” that would make such a condition so onerous. Ms. Currie said Ms. Alexander “has been employed and she’s looking for a job” and exploring her educational options. In other words, she’s doing sweet boo all, a fact which didn’t escape the judge, who arched a brow and imposed the reporting condition. Sentencing was set for April 19. The judge found that Ms. Alexander, now 25, was the only person who “had direct knowledge of the extent of his [Miguel’s] distress”; that she lied like a rug to everybody about how it had happened (she said the baby had pulled a pot of boiling water onto himself); that she robbed him of his “last hope of survival” when she deceived his dad, Sergio Fernandes, about the extent of the injury; that Miguel would have been screaming and utterly inconsolable and that “going shopping for two hours instead of taking him to a hospital is nothing short of shocking.” Judge Molloy said that when Ms. Alexander left to hit the mall, probably around 1 p.m. that day, it’s possible Miguel “was still screaming in agony” or possible “that his body was already going into shock and he was starting down the path towards unconsciousness. Either scenario is disturbing.” The little guy didn’t have much of a life. He was taken into care by the Catholic Children’s Aid Society of Toronto shortly after he was born, as Mary McConville, the agency executive director, confirmed to The Globe and Mail in a recent interview. He remained in care for more than six months before being returned to Ms. Alexander, who by then had moved in with Sergio. Theoretically, the agency was still supervising the baby at the time of his death. Maria Fernandes, Miguel’s paternal grandmother, remembers the day he was born. “I didn’t even know she was pregnant,” she told The Globe on Monday, but then Sergio said that, “She [Ms. Alexander] doesn’t want him” and asked her to come to the hospital. It took her 20 minutes to get down there; by then, she said, Ms. Alexander had handed him over to the CCAS. Ms. Fernandes released balloons, including a teddy bear, outside the courthouse on Monday in honour of what would have been Miguel’s fifth birthday, last Friday. More tomorrow about this wretched case. read more ... |
| Spier’ education: Officials pull plug on website promoting hidden camera gadgets for principals - Tuesday, February 15, 2011NY Daily News | School principals-turned-Inspector Gadgets had their online spy-gear store shuttered after the Daily News exposed their link to the sleuthing market.
Rachel Monahan
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February 13, 2011 School principals-turned-Inspector Gadgets had their online spy-gear store shuttered after the Daily News exposed their link to the sleuthing market The city Education Department pulled the plug on its website portal to an I-Spy-type arsenal where principals browsed for hidden cameras to trick out their halls. Among the 45 undercover devices The News found listed on the site, were: - A fluffy teddy bear with a built-in camera.
- A mini-cam fitted electric pencil sharpener.
- Neckties that double as spy-ties
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| Father's protest- Teacher leaves behind nine-year-old boy on class trip - Wednesday, February 09, 2011A father protested outside an Ontario school for the second straight day Tuesday after his son with special needs was left behind on a field trip. Educators in Kitchener, Ontario, are learning some hard lessons after a nine-year-old boy with learning disabilities was left behind after a class trip to a skating rink. A father is pulling his children out of their Kitchener school after his son, who has special needs, was left at a park.  Ryan Mullins is shown in this video image on Tuesday, Feb. 8, 2011. By: CTV.ca News Staff Date: Tuesday Feb. 8, 2011 7:25 PM PT A father protested outside an Ontario school for the second straight day Tuesday after his son with special needs was left behind on a field trip. Three weeks ago, nine-year-old Ryan Mullins was left at a local park after refusing to return with his class to Queen Elizabeth Public School in Kitchener. Ryan's father, Kevin, says his son was left with two strangers while his teacher walked back to school with his classmates. Kevin Mullins says Ryan has problems retaining information, especially words and numbers. "Ryan has never crossed the road without his father's hand, basically," Kevin Mullins told CTV Southwestern Ontario. "They know my child . . . they know him well enough to know that he cannot even get home. He doesn't know his address or anything." Ryan says he walked halfway back to the school alone until the teacher met up with him. "I never thought they would actually leave me there," he said. "They left anyway." Out of fear Ryan didn't tell his dad the story until two weeks ago. Officials with the Waterloo Region School Board say the boy was left in the care of an elderly couple while his teacher helped the other students back to school. The board maintains the teacher returned to the park for Ryan. "Essentially, the teacher was in a difficult situation, was quite aware that there should have been the extra support and tried to manage the situation as best as she could," Gregg Bereznick, superintendent of education at the Waterloo Region District School Board, told CTV Southwestern Ontario. The extra support in question would have been an educational assistant because the class is comprised of special needs children. The school board has conceded it was a mistake for the teacher to take the class on a field trip alone. Bereznick said an educational assistant was available, but the teacher chose to handle the trip on her own. He said the board is taking disciplinary action against the teacher, but would not specify what punishment she is facing. Ryan Mullins wants both the teacher and the school's principal fired. In the meantime, he has pulled Ryan and his sister out of the school. With a report from CTV Southwestern Ontario's Meghan Furman read more ... |
| If you care about your children, don't buy anything from China - Tuesday, February 08, 2011China selling toxic food to the world, Don't buy or eat their products. Watch full episode later on RT. This time Max Keiser and co-host, Stacy Herbert, talk about fake rice and real inequality and about a ‘new model’ that looks a whole lot like an old model called capitalism. In the second half of the show, Max talks to Pierre Jovanovic, author “Blythe Masters,” about credit default swaps, the Queen of commodities and Marie Antoinette read more ... |
| Danger of a junk food diet for children: Study reveals toddlers who eat more chips, crisps, biscuits - Tuesday, February 08, 2011Toddlers fed a diet of junk food can suffer lasting damage to their brainpower, researchers warn. JENNY HOPE UK Daily Mail
Feb 8, 2011 Toddlers fed a diet of junk food can suffer lasting damage to their brainpower, researchers warn. Children who eat more chips, crisps, biscuits and pizza before the age of three have a lower IQ five years later, a study showed. The difference could be as much as five IQ points compared with children given healthier diets with fruit, vegetables and home-cooked food. But even if their diet improves, it could be too late as the ill-effects can persist for a lifetime. This is the first study to suggest a direct link between the diet of young children and their brainpower in later life. The project at Bristol University took account of factors such as social class, breastfeeding and maternal education and age. read more ... |
| Debate fires up over presumption of joint custody - Tuesday, February 08, 2011Proposal would fundamentally change approaches to post-separation parenting
By Judy Van Rhijn | Publication Date: Monday, 07 February 2011
A fundamental change to the very basis on which post-separation parenting is viewed is being urged by some members of the legal and mental-health professions while others fiercely oppose the idea.
‘Generally, there is a parent and an assistant parent. How does a judge make those two positions coincide?’ says Kristen Bucci.In fact, the introduction of a presumption of continued joint custody after separation is a measure that provokes strong opinions on both sides of the argument. Garry Wise of Wise Law Office in Toronto says that bringing in a presumption of joint custody would be an “across-the-board” approach to family law reform that would reduce the number of cases coming before the courts.
“This would be the biggest solution of all. What we do not have is a legally sanctioned culture of joint parenting at the federal level under the Divorce Act or the provincial level. We have an anachronism of a custody/access-based system that evolved one or more generation ago when one parent was at home and one parent was working.
Almost all families now do the parenting together, and we have an arbitrary, artificial concept of best interests of the children that is so pliable and subjective that you can read it every which way.”
With a presumption in place, Wise says the first message couples would get from courts and legal practitioners is the expectation of shared parenting.
“The discussion would begin differently. It would set the stage for more cases to settle in a way the parties themselves feel is appropriate and equitable. With that culture combined with mandatory mediation where the parties narrow the issues and resolve more issues that affect the ability of the parties to parent, we’d be well on the way to forging a new culture after separation.”
Wise compares the idea to the introduction of the child-support guidelines. “It was unfair to certain parties and fair to others but it established a new status quo and took almost all the cases off the table. I’d propose something equally radical.”
The issue was given an airing in a lively debate at the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts Ontario conference in October. Edward Kruk, an associate professor with the school of social work and family studies at the University of British Columbia, presented the case for a rebuttable presumption of equal or shared parenting responsibilities, with the opposite view being given by lawyer Martha McCarthy.
Kruk has become one of the most vocal supporters of a presumption and favours a transition from shared parenting in a two-parent household to shared parenting in two different households. Kruk believes the “winner-take-all” adversarial approach through sole custody isn’t working for either children or parents and that change is urgently needed.
His numerous papers emphasize the negative effects on children with absent fathers and the positive impacts on children of shared custody arrangements compared to sole custody situations. He also notes there’s decreasing parental conflict in joint custody families as compared to an increase of such problems over time in sole custody families.
In his presentation, he varied his basic proposal for a presumption by coupling it with a rebuttable presumption against shared custody in cases of family violence and abuse, as proposed by the National Association of Women and the Law.
His published opinions say this would apply in proven cases involving a criminal conviction in a matter directly affecting the parenting of the children or a finding of a child in need of protection by a child welfare authority. Kruk proposes that the much more stringent standard of child in need of protection be applied before removing a parent’s legal custody rather than the test that looks to the best interests of the child.
Wise is in favour of putting the onus to prove that a presumption is inappropriate on the spouse who doesn’t agree. “If legislation said the starting point is joint custody, and the onus is on the parties to provide evidence that a different arrangement is in the best interests of the children, it would be difficult for a parent to ever satisfy that,” he says.
This is precisely what worries Toronto lawyer and mediator Barbara Landau, who was present at the debate and strongly disagrees with the proposal. “Where there is an onus, it is often on the victimized party to disprove it,” she says. “It makes for a potentially much more adversarial situation. If a parent thinks a situation is inappropriate for a shared arrangement, they have to go to court and argue against it.”
Landau believes there’s a lack of understanding of the difference between joint legal custody, where parties agree to consult with each other on significant decisions, and joint physical custody, which involves having the children 50 per cent of the time.
This is echoed by other practitioners. Jane Murray of Burke-Robertson LLP in Ottawa is concerned about the various interpretations of joint custody.
“There would have to be a clear definition of exactly what you’re presuming or there would be a lot of litigation around the definition,” she says, noting she believes a presumption is unnecessary. “There is already a direction in the Divorce Act that one of the factors be maximizing the child’s time with each parent.”
Lawyer Kristen Bucci of Zochodne Bucci in Thunder Bay, Ont., isn’t in favour of true joint custody, which she defines as joint decision-making. In her experience, it works only in rare cases. “At the point of separation, there is a lot of animosity. You need two people to talk calmly, rationally, and in the best interests of the child, and that rarely happens in real life.”
With respect to shared physical custody, Landau finds it’s rare that people come up with a plan for 50-per-cent sharing of physical custody. “You need geographic proximity because the children attend school and have friends in the neighbourhood.
You need co-ordination and you need availability. People must have jobs that allow them to be available to have the children that much. I see people who have to be at work from 7 a.m. to 7 p.m. Their plan is to leave the children with a caregiver when the other parent is at home.”
Landau adds: “You also have to consider the stage of development and temperament of the child. Do the children take to change easily or do they suffer anxiety over the smallest changes? There is a need for stability, security, and a reasonable routine.”
Landau also stresses the need to look at the parenting connection before the separation. “Some parents who are asking for 50 per cent have never looked after the child on their own except for maybe 20 minutes while someone went to the 7-Eleven. You need to build up the child’s comfort and confidence.”
Landau also stresses that the level of communication between the parents needs to be respectful so the children aren’t travelling back and forth between war zones.
Bucci, meanwhile, believes parents need to prove they were equally involved in parenting prior to separation. “One partner says, ‘Yes, I was absolutely equally involved.’
The other partner says, ‘Absolutely not. I did the majority of the decision-making.’ Generally, there is a parent and an assistant parent. How does a judge make those two positions coincide?”
Bucci, in fact, finds a lot of litigants get very hung up on a particular label. “So many parents want joint custody but are not really prepared to put in the work.”
Landau places the blame for this situation squarely at the feet of the child-support guidelines. “The question of equal time is contaminated by the supposed 40-per-cent rule of child support. Virtually every man wants 40 per cent of the time in the mistaken belief that they won’t have to pay child support.
I call it the faint-hope clause. If you took away the 40-per-cent rule, there would be a lot less fights over the percentage of time.”
Landau believes most cases start with a presumption that it’s in the child’s best interests to have a full relationship with both parents in any case. “A judge has an overriding responsibility to deal with each case in an individualized way, and that doesn’t preclude joint physical or joint legal custody.” read more ... |
| Kafkaesque nightmare - Monday, February 07, 2011The violation of school rules that landed a Mt. Pleasant mom in jail represents a different form of public school truancy — an unexcused absence from common sense. Pittsburgh Tribune-Review
Feb 7, 2011 The violation of school rules that landed a Mt. Pleasant mom in jail represents a different form of public school truancy — an unexcused absence from common sense. Jessica Heiser says she called her children’s Mt. Pleasant Area elementary school to arrange an extended Christmas break in 2009 for her two young sons, both good students. But because Mrs. Heiser, 31, didn’t get the school principal’s permission, the absences were counted as “unexcused.” And she was slapped with fines totaling $353.70, which, on her waitress salary, she couldn’t pay. So last month, more than a year later, a constable took her to jail, where Heiser spent an afternoon until a friend provided the cash to get her out. An usual case? Sure. But it’s also a tutorial on just how far public school policy can traduce parental prerogative. Choose a conventional school, public or private? Not unless parents pay that tuition plus their school taxes. Fire a poorly performing teacher? Not when that teacher’s union threatens litigation. The Heisers aren’t alone in this Kafkaesque nightmare. For decades parents’ rightful say in their children’s education has been marginalized by the intolerable authoritarian creep of self-serving public schools read more ... |
| Columnist Who Criticized Plans To Put Homosexual Material In School Curriculum Gets Death Threats - Friday, February 04, 2011Phillips had asserted that homosexualists are now attempting to suppress any public opposition to their political goals. The reaction to this statement, she said, reveals a basic “totalitarian mindset” that is behind the homosexualist agenda. Phillips had asserted that homosexualists are now attempting to suppress any public opposition to their political goals. The reaction to this statement, she said, reveals a basic “totalitarian mindset” that is behind the homosexualist agenda. “Indeed, the total inability of those who subjected me to such abuse to realise that they are, in fact, spewing out the very hatred, intolerance and incitement to violence of which they are accusing others would be hilarious were it not so terrifying Hilary White Life Site News
Friday, February 4, 2011 (LifeSiteNews.com) – A prominent conservative UK columnist has said she received death threats after she criticized plans to insert homosexual materials into all subjects in the curriculum in Britain’s schools. Writing in the Daily Mail this week, Melanie Phillips said that she had been expecting a reaction, “which would amply bear out the truth of what I had written.” “The response, however, exceeded even my expectations.” For the last week, she said, “I have been subjected to an extraordinarily vicious outpouring of hate and incitement to violence” through emails, the internet and in mainstream media. “If the gay lobby had set about trying to prove my point, it could hardly have done a better job.” Phillips had asserted that homosexualists are now attempting to suppress any public opposition to their political goals. The reaction to this statement, she said, reveals a basic “totalitarian mindset” that is behind the homosexualist agenda. “Indeed, the total inability of those who subjected me to such abuse to realise that they are, in fact, spewing out the very hatred, intolerance and incitement to violence of which they are accusing others would be hilarious were it not so terrifying.” In her January 24th piece titled, “Britain’s New McCarthyites,” Phillips wrote that plans to insert references to homosexual relationships throughout the schools curriculum are nothing more than “a Government-backed drive to promote the gay agenda.” She pointed to the many cases in which opposition from Christians or others who uphold traditional sexual mores has been quashed through actions in the courts. “What was once an attempt to end unpleasant attitudes towards a small sexual minority has now become a kind of bigotry in reverse,” she wrote. “Expressing what used to be the moral norm of Western civilisation is now not just socially impermissible, but even turns upstanding people into lawbreakers.” Phillips said, “The response to this warning against an attempt by the gay lobby to silence dissent? An eruption of tweets on Twitter suggesting that I should be killed.” She offered samples, including, “Someone just kill Melanie Phillips please”; “your homophobic rant equals that which comes out of a dog’s rectum. Kill yourself you ****”; and “throw her in the Thames.” Emails she received called her a “vile, poisonous, horrible old woman,” and said, “people like you should be silenced as you insight (sic) bigotry and fear. Go and suck a tail pipe, get cancer, GET RAN OVER BY A TRAIN. I hope your ******* house burns down.” Phillips, who is Jewish, is a libertarian conservative political columnist for the Spectator and comments widely on Israel, the global crisis of Islamic violence, and more broadly on cultural issues. In her new book, “The World Turned Upside Down,” Phillips has denounced the loss of and vilification of Judeo-Christian religious belief that “has meant the West has replaced reason and truth with ideology and prejudice, which it enforces in the manner of a secular inquisition. “The result has been a kind of mass derangement, as truth and lies, right and wrong, victim and aggressor are all turned upside down.” “Thus the West is losing both its rationality and its freedoms. It is succumbing to a ‘soft totalitarianism,’ which not only is creating an ugly mood of intolerance but is undermining its ability to defend itself against Islamic aggression.” read more ... |
| Doctors, Nurses and Scientists on Protecting Your Child and Yourself. - Wednesday, February 02, 2011Infowars.com | Get the VaccinationCouncil.org Special Report released by NaturalNews
Click the read more below to get the VaccinationCouncil.org Special Report released by NaturalNews. The report contains useful information on the fact vaccinations have never been proven safe or effective, the profit motive behind Big Pharm’s vaccine push, why vaccinated children have far worse health outcomes than unvaccinated children, and more read more ... |
| Are MMR vaccines dangerous for children? Dr Suzanne Humphries urges parents to get informed - Wednesday, February 02, 2011Are routine vaccines dangerous for children? Dr Suzanne Humphries, a practicing nephrologist (kidney physician) says the vaccine industry isn’t giving people both sides of the story, and parents need to get informed before subjecting their children to vaccines that can potentially cause serious harm or even death. Mike Adams Natural News
Feb 2, 2011 Are routine vaccines dangerous for children? Dr Suzanne Humphries, a practicing nephrologist (kidney physician) says the vaccine industry isn’t giving people both sides of the story, and parents need to get informed before subjecting their children to vaccines that can potentially cause serious harm or even death. It’s all being revealed in a one-hour NaturalNews interview with Dr Suzanne Humphries. You can view the entire interview on NaturalNews.TV at:http://naturalnews.tv/v.asp?v=BAE7F… In that interview, you’ll hear Dr Humphries talk about: • Why she became concerned about vaccines after noticing kidney failure in patients who recently received vaccines. • Why vaccines are often contaminated with unknown viral strains, and why the vaccine industry has covered up known vaccine contamination (and knowingly sold contaminated vaccines to be used on the public). • Why the entire vaccine industry needs to be questioned, and why a new effort is needed to scientifically assess whether vaccines are really safe or effective. • Why the fairy tale that “vaccines eradicated polio” is a false mythology — here’s what really happened. • Why the “smallpox” vaccine has never been proven to be effective against smallpox at all. • Why vaccine industry research is extremely flimsy and ignores rigorous standards of scientific evidence. (Using improper placebos designed to minimize the appearance of side effects, for example.) • Why the vaccine industry won’t test vaccines versus unvaccinated children (they’re terrified of the results). • Why children caught up in outbreaks of measles are often the very same children who were vaccinated against measles! • Why vaccines may actually suppress the immune system and cause increased vulnerability to future infections. • Why many childhood infections such as chicken pox are perfectly natural, normal and even HEALTHY. • Why the outlandish and unscientific behavior of the vaccine industry is causing an erosion of credibility across all “science.” • Why many of the people engaged in pushing vaccines have financial ties to vaccine companies. • Why the vaccine industry is utterly unwilling to tolerate anyone asking intelligent questions about the safety of vaccines Hear all this and more in this exclusive interview with Dr Suzanne Humphries: http://naturalnews.tv/v.asp?v=BAE7F… Dr Humphries is one of the signers of the groundbreaking new document just released by the International Medical Council on Vaccination, calledVACCINES: Get the Full Story: http://www.naturalnews.com/Vaccines… Stay tuned to NaturalNews.com for yet more interviews and breaking news about vaccines in the days ahead. We will air an interview with Dr Sherri Tenpenny tomorrow, followed by an exclusive video interview with Dr Andrew Wakefield the following day. If you haven’t yet seen the video from Cryshame, which shows an autistic child damaged by vaccines, you can view it here:http://naturalnews.tv/v.asp?v=5659B… Note, also, that nearly all those who push vaccines are also pushers of GMOs. Both poisons are being forced upon the world in the name of “science,” but both are actually based on extreme distortions of science and driven by for-profit corporate agendas read more ... |
| Barbara Kay: Science confirms the obvious — dads should make time to play - Tuesday, February 01, 2011Barbara Kay February 1, 2011 – 12:41 pm A new study out of Ohio State University seems to suggest that traditional gender roles work out better for families than interchangeability of parents and tasks. The study only involved 112 families, so it is hardly what can be called conclusive proof. But its findings will probably ring a bell with old-timers like me, or even new-timers who aren’t politically correct. After watching the target families interact with their children during caregiving tasks and while involved in play and various projects like building toy structures or drawing pictures, the study authors said that families in which fathers were more involved in play activities had more of what researchers called supportive interaction — i.e. “behaviours that are warm and co-operative between the parents.” These findings make sense. In their infancy, children are usually far more dependent on their mothers than their fathers. Certainly infants can be cared for by fathers, but if Nature intended infant care to be egalitarian, she would not have had the woman carry the child for nine months prior to birth, produce hormones and chemicals that reinforce bonding with the baby and produce the child’s food in her body, ensuring close bodily contact with the infant many times a day for extended periods. The fact is, women want to have control over the caregiving of their child, even when they delegate certain tasks, including to the father. They know the infant intimately, and develop very strict ideas around the optimal care of the infant. As the child grows and starts to interact with the outside world, the father’s input becomes more important. Men like to do tasks that have a point to them. They like to do projects that end in a product, or a skill acquired, or a structure standing, or a new record set, or a space re-organized, or a distance covered. You get the point. They like just about anything to which they can assign a precise degree of positive progress or height or efficiency. That is why they make great playmates for children. Childcare is tedious and “progress” is infinitesimal, since 99% of child care is rote and a matter of keeping children clean, warm, sleep-satisfied or full. All necessary tasks, but highly repetitive. Gratification to the caregiver is registered negatively: when done well, the child is not hungry, not dirty, not fatigued and not cold. It is a mother’s job to provide a sense of continuity, “nest” familiarity and unconditional love, as well as manners, deportment and social self-presentation. It is a father’s job to support the mother’s rules, but also to teach children how to negotiate the dangers and pitfalls of the outside world, which includes judgment of conduct, skills acquisition and the build-up of self-confidence in relation to other people. This is best done through play that holds the promise of competition: teaching the child to things at first, and then teaching him or her how to do them better, faster or more accurately. Obviously there is a great deal of overlap in each other’s areas from time to time and sometimes from necessity, but the study seems to confirm what old-fashioned parents have always known, and which new-fashioned parents find they do by instinct, even when theory tells them they shouldn’t. National Post
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| ‘Deadbeat’ parents caught in a debtor’s prison, even though the term deadbeat doesn't exist - Monday, January 24, 2011Parents who are terrorized by government laws with governments who use terrorism to get at Fathers. Bill Rankin The Atlanta Journal-Constitution January 24, 2011 On any given day, hundreds of Georgians are in jail for failing to pay child support. Family law attorneys say many of these “deadbeats” are right where they belong. They have been found in willful contempt of court for repeatedly refusing to pay their child support, failing to try to find work or hiding their income and assets. But many parents are being jailed even though they have no ability to pay, creating modern-day debtor’s prisons, according to motions being filed in Georgia courts. The state should provide lawyers to indigent parents for their civil-contempt hearings to ensure due process, the filings say. Leah Ward Sears, former chief justice of the Georgia Supreme Court, spells out the complexity of the issue. When a parent lacks the ability to pay, jailing the parent is merely punitive -- and illegal -- Turner's lawyers said in court filings. The state has no interest in maintaining "a de facto debtors' prison for [parents] who genuinely cannot pay. ... As a matter of fundamental fairness, Turner should have been afforded the assistance of counsel to show that he could not [pay]." This month, the U.S. Justice Department disagreed, telling the high court that Turner did not have a categorical right to counsel. But the agency's brief said the South Carolina decision should be overturned because parents need to be given a more meaningful opportunity to show they can't pay. Such procedures could include requiring parents to complete an understandable form disclosing their personal finances, the Justice Department said. Jail for child support debt questioned Veteran's detention called unconstitutional; about 500 others held in Georgia for non-support When Randy Miller lost his job at AT&T last year, he used money from odd jobs and his tax refunds to try and keep up with his child support payments. But eventually the money ran out. With only 39 cents in the bank, the destitute Marietta war veteran was jailed recently for failing to pay support for his 16-year-old daughter. Miller's lawyer is now seeking to get Miller released, saying that both the U.S. Supreme Court and the Georgia Supreme Court have ruled that judges cannot incarcerate someone if they are unable to pay their court-ordered financial obligations, such as fines or child support. "Here is someone who for the vast majority of his adult life served his country in the military and kept up with his child support payments," Sarah Geraghty, a lawyer with the Southern Center for Human Rights, said. "But then he fell upon hard times and fell behind in his payments, and the state's response is to send him to jail." Doug Slade, a Rome attorney who represents the state Office of Child Support Services, said Miller is incarcerated for failing to comply with a court order requiring him to pay child support, with the option to serve time in a work-release center. "A lot of times the focus is on the parent who goes to jail and too often it's the children who go unnoticed," Slade said. "Our job is to seek to take care of the best interests of the child. It seems people are often more concerned about the parent who has the ability to work but is not and consequently is not taking care of the child." Miller is one of many indigent parents sitting in Georgia detention facilities because they are too poor to make full child support payments, Geraghty said, citing the bad economy. They are often jailed on civil contempt charges and not provided attorneys to represent them, she said. According to Open Records Act requests filed with county sheriffs by the Southern Center, at least 500 parents are incarcerated statewide on any given day for being unable to pay court-ordered child support. Last year, Geraghty obtained the release of a man jailed for more than a year in Cook County for being too poor to pay child support even though the judge and a state attorney knew the man was not the boy's father. In Miller's case, she said, "he did not willfully fail to pay what he owed; he was simply too poor to do so." An exhibit attached to the petition for his release shows that as of Dec. 6, Miller had 39 cents in his bank account. Slade said sending someone to jail is a last resort. He acknowledged that the courts have ruled that judges may not incarcerate someone on a civil contempt charge if they lack the ability to pay. But there is an exception under state law, he said, that allows judges to send inmates to work-release centers so they can work jobs during the day and sleep at the centers at night. Slade, who has handled hundreds of child support cases, estimated that the majority of inmates pick jail when given the option of serving time in jail or being allowed to find a job at a work-release center so they can make partial child support payments. "It's so frustrating," he said. Miller, 39, chose the work-release option and is now serving a sentence of up to 120 days at a diversion center in Floyd County, where his daughter and her mother reside. He was in the military from 1991 to 2005 and completed three assignments overseas, including a 14-month deployment to Iraq, according to court records. For most of the past 15 years, he consistently made his child support payments, court records show. While he worked at AT&T as a service technician, for example, Miller's $452 monthly child support payment was deducted from his paychecks. But in July 2009, Miller lost his job. He tried to start a pressure-washing business, but it failed. His financial situation steadily worsened to the point where he could not make his mortgage payments or pay the utilities on his Marietta home. In October, Miller lost the house to foreclosure. Since he lost his job, Miller made partial child support payments totaling more than $2,600, court records show. On Nov. 11, Miller found a job with a company that pays employees to assemble furniture bought by customers of local department stores. But four days later, he was ordered to appear in court to face contempt charges for being behind in his child support. Miller was ordered to either pay $3,000 or spend up to 120 days in confinement. He had no choice but to pick the latter, Geraghty said. At the work-release center, he must use his wages to pay $140 a week for room and board and $135 a week in child support. Miller has been working only a few days a week at his assembling job because there is not enough full-time work. Geraghty said he is not making enough now to make child-support payments and he is looking for a second job |
| Meet Dan Major and his nightmare - Sunday, January 23, 2011 |
| It’s time to grade parents, new bill proposes - Wednesday, January 19, 2011Big Bother & Police State Government Terrorism and the way they think (socialists) that parents need to be rated to be Parents...The State is out of Control, kick these NWO kooks out of office...
Orlando Sentinel | Parents with children in pre-K-to-third-grade would get “satisfactory,” “needs improvement” or “unsatisfactory” ratings in four broad categories. Every year, Florida’s students, schools and districts are graded based on their performance. Now, it’s time to start rating parents, a state lawmaker says. State Rep. Kelli Stargel, R-Lakeland, filed a bill Tuesday that would require elementary school teachers to evaluate parents based on “the quality” of their involvement in their children’s schools. Parents with children in pre-K-to-third-grade would get “satisfactory,” “needs improvement” or “unsatisfactory” ratings in four broad categories. They would be judged on their response to requests for meetings or communication, their children’s completion of homework and preparation for tests, their children’s absentee and tardy rates and their children’s “physical preparation for school,” including a good night’s sleep and appropriate meals.
They would be judged on their response to requests for meetings or communication, their children's completion of homework and preparation for tests, their children's absentee and tardy rates and their children's "physical preparation for school," including a good night's sleep and appropriate meals.
Parents' grades would appear on their kids' report cards.
"Although the school environment has a great impact on a child's well-being and academic success, parents and the home environment form the foundation of a child's present and future life," Stargel explains in the bill, HB 255.
"Without proper parental involvement in all aspects of a child's life, the child's prospects to be a well-equipped and useful member of society are greatly diminished," the bill states. Stargel, a mother of five, could not be reached late Tuesday.
Parents and teachers raised questions about the bill, saying it could backfire and make parent-teacher relations more tense. They also feared it would add to teachers' workloads if they had to keep track of parent progress as well as their students'.
"I think it would create a more hostile environment if the parent wasn't doing what they were supposed to do," said Andrew Spar, president of the Volusia Teachers Organization, that county's teachers union.
"At the end of the day, I don't think this would change anything. It would just create more work."
Spar said the descriptions of ideal parental involvement in Stargel's bill are good and there is no doubt that involved parents are key to student success. But trying to create a formal grading system — complete with parent appeals — would have little impact but to "put a tremendous burden on the teacher," he said.
Susan Persis, president of the Florida Association of School Administrators and the principal at Pine Trail Elementary in Ormond Beach, has other concerns – fairness being the chief among them.
"There are some parents who work two and three jobs and who care about their kids just as much as the parent who's the president of the PTA and is there at school every day," Persis said.
"It could be a time thing. It could be something going on in the family. Who is the teacher to say, 'You're not doing a good job?' "
But John Wilson, whose two sons are in kindergarten and third grade at Bentley Elementary in Seminole County, thinks Stargel's bill is a great idea.
Parents who are doing their part would appreciate the positive feedback from teachers, he said. Those who aren't doing their part might be encouraged to start.
"Someone who truly wants their child to learn and succeed and go above and beyond, they're not going to take it as an insult — they're going to step up and do more," he said.
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| Planned Parenthood, MOLESTERS, WANTS TO GET AT YOUR CHILDREN - Friday, December 31, 2010CNS News | The Planned Parenthood Federation of America is signaling its intention to dominate the national sex education agenda.
The project aims to teach parents and caregivers how to educate children about sex — from birth. And it recommends telling teenagers about masturbation, oral sex and “where to go for help to prepare to be sexually active.” read more ... |
| Failing boys and the powder keg of sexual politics - Thursday, December 30, 2010Globe and Mail - They may require a gender-specific approach to stay engaged. A Globe editorial concludes our six-part series In 1970, women made up just 38 per cent of Canada’s university undergraduates. Today, men make up roughly the same proportion. For men, it is 1970 in reverse. Are boys the new girls? Of course not. There is no glass ceiling. There is no rejection of aspirations to powerful positions. But boys are struggling academically, and they act as if their choices are circumscribed. If women were still just 38 per cent of undergraduates, we wouldn’t tolerate it. If women were 64 per cent of high-school dropouts, we would be up in arms. Such poor achievement levels would damage society – all that lost productivity. And it would harm individuals – all that lost potential Published Thursday, Oct. 21, 2010 10:19PM EDTLast updated Monday, Oct. 25, 2010 11:25AM EDTThey may require a gender-specific approach to stay engaged. A Globe editorial concludes our six-part series In 1970, women made up just 38 per cent of <:st1><:st1>Canada’s university undergraduates. Today, men make up roughly the same proportion. For men, it is 1970 in reverse. Are boys the new girls? Of course not. There is no glass ceiling. There is no rejection of aspirations to powerful positions. But boys are struggling academically, and they act as if their choices are circumscribed. If women were still just 38 per cent of undergraduates, we wouldn’t tolerate it. If women were 64 per cent of high-school dropouts, we would be up in arms. Such poor achievement levels would damage society – all that lost productivity. And it would harm individuals – all that lost potential. More related to this storyVideoPart 3: Can haves and have nots co-exist?Video Video Part 5: Are we failing boys? A generations-long push to knock down stereotypes and expand aspirations helped girls and young women rocket forward in education. They have raised the bar for achievement, and that’s a good thing. Now it’s time for a push for boys and young men. It’s an economic imperative for a future in which even manufacturing jobs will require high-school-plus; and it’s in keeping with the moral purpose of education.
Girls’ energy – unleashed – is wonderful to behold. Go to francophone medical schools in <:st1><:st1>Quebec, where 70 per cent of the students are women. Go to <:st1><:st1>McGill <:st1>University, where women are substantially in the majority in professional schools for law, medicine, dentistry and architecture, and narrowly in the majority in the faculty of management. Go to the University of Toronto Medical School, where there are 1,843 female medical students, and just 996 male ones But what if a similar push helped boys reach higher? The number of women who achieved university degrees (graduate and undergraduate) in 2008 was 50 per cent higher than it was in 1992. The push worked. The number of men who achieved those degrees rose just 29 per cent over that same period. (Women had a larger base, too; they were already a large majority on campus by 1992.) It’s as if news of the knowledge economy had barely reached men Five key principles stand out in trying to reach the boys:
1. Boys and girls learn differently There are many individual exceptions, of course. But an understanding of gender differences should inform teaching practice. Boys need a choice of reading materials, some stressing action, war or humour rather than feelings. Non-fiction should be offered. The days of all children in a classroom reading the same novel should be numbered. New technologies should be employed in literacy and other areas of instruction to help boys become more engaged. Boys tend to need some opportunity for movement. Some girls, too, will be helped by each one of those changes, because not all girls learn in the same way. Good teaching practices for boys are therefore consonant with good teaching practices generally. Several provinces and individual school boards have begun offering guidelines to teachers on male literacy but “what I’m seeing in the classroom on a daily basis is that we haven’t quite shifted,” says Beverley Freedman, an educator who works with boards and education ministries in several provinces 2. Boys benefit from male educators It is more than just a matter of role models. Imagine how a girl would feel in a school with all male teachers and administrators. Wouldn’t something be missing from how those schools understand her needs and communicate with her? “Some boys are willing to learn how to be a man from a woman, but some boys aren’t,” says <:st1><:st1>U.S. educator Barney Brawer 3. Local needs should drive innovation What works in <:st1>Lethbridge may not work in <:st1>Moncton or <:st1><:st1>Montreal. There is no need for a massive growth in single-gender schools, but if some feel it works for them, they should go ahead, as the Toronto District School Board intends to do. <:st1><:st1>Edmonton has the Nellie McClung Girls’ Junior High to instill leadership, initiative, self-reliance and independence. Boys need those qualities, too. More than that, they need to feel supported, encouraged and listened to. Some boards have surveyed boys or set up focus groups to find out how to engage them better 4. Boys’ aspirations need a push Junior A hockey players in <:st1>Oshawa, Ont., and university hockey players in <:st1><:st1>Fredericton have served as reading mentors to boys. It’s a start. What an upside-down country, where boys are taught that hockey is in the blood, but not reading. There are 976 scholarships specifically reserved for women in <:st1><:st1>Canada, and just 192 for men (mostly sports-related). Publishers saw to it that science textbooks for Grades 7 to 10 were rewritten to show girls and women as successes. Role-modelling programs and career days aimed at girls have been widespread. A strong tide lifts many boats 5. Helping boys should not mean removing supports from girls The girls’ scholarships, schools such as Nellie McClung, special career programs – they should continue as long as they’re meeting girls’ needs. This is not a zero-sum game. In retrospect, it was wrong to rewrite textbooks so that in portraying female successes they also cast males in the role of losers. “The unstated assumption was that boys did not need the same degree of encouragement,” one observer said. That assumption was wrong. All young people, boys and girls, need encouragement and support. They need the conditions that nurture academic success The choices made by boys and young men do not reflect the natural order of things, any more than 1970 was where women should remain. They reflect the relative lack of nurturance our society provides for male academic success. More related to this story read more ... |
| Brutal SS Child Kidnapping In Progress - Monday, December 27, 2010We Are Change Brum | A father and son brutally and unlawfully assaulted by policy enforcement officers (aka the police) under orders of the SS (Social Services). *Note: We don’t know all the circumstances of this case, but obviously the child services have become an epidemic on the family, and surely there are better ways to deal with breaking apart families. We Are Change Brum
December 25, 2010 A father and son brutally and unlawfully assaulted by policy enforcement officers (aka the police) under orders of the SS (Social Services).
Watch out for the Section 34 (4) orders to prevent the child’s father having access ‘because he is aggressive and abusive’ and watch out for the S38A exclusion orders. They don’t need to PROVE anything, they just need to SAY it. We can tell you and work with you on things to say that will perk up the Judges interest. read more ... |
| Father Harassed By CPS For Feeding Kids Organic Food - Monday, December 13, 2010 Paul Joseph Watson | “See Something, Say Something”: Neighbors report on man for refusing to make daughters drink tap water or take vaccines.
The New Police State coming home to you next!
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A father of two was harassed and investigated by Child Protective Services and police for feeding his daughters organic food, refusing to make them drink fluoride-poisoned tap water and not having them injected with mercury-laden vaccines, all of which constitutes “suspicious activity” in the new Sovietized America, a foretaste of what’s to come once Big Sis’ Wal-Mart spy campaign gets up and running. read more ... |
| Courts From Hell - Family Injustice In Canada - Sunday, December 12, 2010Author interview by Hamilton CHCH TV of newly published book(lulu.com), Courts From Hell - Family Injustice In Canada. The book details the destruction done to families by the dysfunctional Canadian Justice System. read more ... |
| Police Arrested Twelve Year Old Boy for Refusing Vaccine at School - Tuesday, December 07, 2010A child of twelve was charged with ‘threatening behaviour’ at his school in Bowmanville, East of Toronto last week. The arrest happened when the boy (who cannot be named for legal reasons) threw a tantrum refusing the Hepatitis B vaccine. It seems schools are taking it they can force any vaccine on children with or without the parents concent. read more ... |
| BC White Paper to reform divorce - Thursday, December 02, 2010What you got in BC is a government that has no right to rule on divorce cases in BC
RoadKill Radio with Terry O'Neil and Kari Simpson interview with:
STEVE SMYTH from Equal Parenting and Ken Wiebe, from BC Fathers will join us to talk about the White Paper on Family Law Reform distributed by the BC government.
MEL MABBOTT, a father of 3, will talk about the horrors of his experiences within the BC courts as a father trying to protect the best interests of his children. Movies are made of stories like this!
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| FathersCan General Warning to ALL - Friday, November 26, 2010FathersCan General Warning to ALL re Bulletin Katherine MacNeil- Child Advocate and Family Mediator 
FathersCan General Warning to ALL Bulletin re: Katherine McNeil, Supposed “Child Advocate and Family Mediator”
Some of our principle Nova Scotia members recently had experience with a very dangerous woman and we feel the danger is sufficient to have us issue a general warning to all members, supporters, FR activists and others in the movement, This refers directly to a person using the alias Katherine McNeil, who self proclaimed herself a children's advocate and child mediator. One of our members, Jason Farnell of FathersCan East was working at a law firm in Nova Scotia in 2007 as a Family Law Paralegal when Ms McNeil telephoned the firm identifying herself as the above and offering her services at $150.00/hr. He spoke with Ms. MacNeil and she provided ample paperwork to prove her involvement in the Family Courts of British Columbia.
Ms. McNeil stated she always acted in the interests of children and never took the sides of any parents. She told me directly that she was aware that Men and Fathers were receiving unequal justice She also informed Jason that she had a brain injury caused by a domestic assault at the hands of her Native common-law husband but had recovered and was relocating to Nova Scotia to start over and work as a specialist in the field of Family Law to aid children who were not being treated fairly.
Jason gave her this writers email contact information and after some weeks of communication at which time she announced that she knew many prominent people including Senator Cools and several well known psychology and other professional figures in the West, I indentified her as a danger to children and that there was something wrong with her background pronouncements Jason’s firm apparently decided to use her on a couple of files and she also apparently did good work. At this point another member David MacEwan came into contact with ‘McNeil’ and as a result of his experiences our suspicions proved to be wholly correct. News reports here refer: http://mobile.metronews.ca/halifax/local/article/682158--missing-woman-s-identity-under-dispute http://www.scotiaweb.ca/201010073059/nova-scotia/rcmp/rcmp-and-sar-search-for-missing-katherine-mcneil.html http://www.cbc.ca/canada/nova-scotia/story/2010/10/12/ns-missing-woman-wilderness-survivor.html
PLEASE EXERCISE CAUTION AND REPORT ANY SIGHTING OF OR CONTACT WITH HER TO LOCAL POLICE
ottawaoffice@fatherscan.com
And the following is a statement by FathersCan East member Dave MacEwan Beware For those who ever come in contact with this person, beware. The consequences of Katherine McNeil's involvement in your case could be forever damaging. A few years ago, Ms. McNeil, had been suggested to me by my lawyer as way of negotiation to resolve an ongoing dispute between my ex wife and me. Ms. McNeil was represented to me as a Family mediator. It was my understanding Ms. MacNeil was representing herself to local (Northern Nova Scotia) as someone who helped families in the throes of divorce. I was excited at the chance to have mediation help sort out the remaining issues of my separation agreement. I waited for a contact from Ms. MacNeil, as instructed by my lawyer. About a week later, I spoke with my 9 year old daughter, and to my surprise she told me she and my son, aged 5, had attended Ms. MacNeil's personal residence, and my daughter described to me how they were interviewed by Ms. McNeil and watched special video's in regard to divorce.
This alarmed me as part of prior disputes between my ex and I was counselling she had our children attend through a service called Autumn House. This facility is a shelter for abused women located in Northern Nova Scotia. The counsellors at this place are not properly trained nor have any of them attended university or the like. They are definitely not qualified to counsel children and I did not want my children “counselled” again by someone without my knowledge. I contacted my lawyer and explained what had occurred, and stated it was not my children who were to be part of this mediation and dispute resolution as it was only supposed to be my ex and me. I especially did not give my consent for my children to meet with Ms. McNeil. My lawyer interrupted me and stated that Ms. McNeil had already contacted the firm and told him how she believed that my lawyer was in a conflict of interest in representing me due to information given to her by my ex. At this point I refused to have anything further to do with Ms. McNeil and also did not approve of my children having any further “counselling” from her.
There was a number of strange emails between my lawyer's firm and Ms. McNeil. My lawyer's firm stood by their opinion that Ms. McNeil picked sides in a ongoing dispute. Ms. McNeil stated she was some kind of children's advocate and that I was angry with my ex and needed to start loving my children. At this point I had not me or even spoke with Ms. McNeil to enable her to come up with this conclusion. It was solely based on her meeting my ex. Through communication between our lawyers, my ex agreed to stop using Ms. McNeil to see our children. A month or so later, Ms. McNeil further intruded into my life and situation by filing a family court application (something called 'too friend the court) in regard to my proceedings. Included in this application was a lengthy affidavit and references to her status as a family/child specialist. This application was ultimately denied by the Court.
Needless to say, I viewed Ms. McNeil as being a nuisance and crazy. After Ms. McNeil was no longer involved in my case and in the Fall (2010) I learned from local news papers that she had done this sort of thing before, that she has had brain damage from a tumor (not a domestic assault as she had told Jason Farnell), and that she has used, and is likely using, as alias and she is gone from this area after being taken to a local hospital and her whereabouts is unknown.
Please take heed, no one knows where she is, she could pop up in your neighbourhood. Ms. McNeil will state she is a children's advocate and she is friends with Senator Anne Cools. Our opinion here on the East Coast is she is very dangerous and needs to be avoided at all costs. If she arrives in your area, contact the police immediately.
Dave MacEwan
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| The Governments are lying to you, the War on Terrorism - Sunday, November 21, 2010Young Boy Strip Searched by TSA You Tube Sunday, November 21, 2010 Let’s get the facts straight first. Before the video started the boy went through a metal detector and didn’t set it off but was selected for a pat down. The boy was shy so the TSA couldn’t complete the full pat on the young boy. The father tried several times to just hold the boys arms out for the TSA agent but I guess it didn’t end up being enough for the guy. I was about 30 ft away so I couldn’t hear their conversation if there was any. The enraged father pulled his son shirt off and gave it to the TSA agent to search, thats when this video begins
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